I have listened to the stories of women whose lives were shredded by sexual abuse. I walk amidst the grief of moms suffering from the death of their child, a death that came too soon, a death that may have come through the horrendous, or through the agony of long term illness. I know too many families that have been broken by divorce or by the waywardness of their young people. Health needs quiet those who once were actively engaged in productive lives. But, as I have listened to many of their stories, I have heard too the words that reflect the precious – the pearls of worth and beauty gathered in the crumbles of darkness. And those words are spoken not only to me, but they are spoken too to others, because, like Jeremiah, God is using them to be His spokesperson – they are giving to others from the beauty amidst the ashes, the beauty that speaks of God’s love, His passion, His care, His enabling, His direction.
If we take the precious from the vile, we can know the reality of mourning turned to dancing, the listening presence of our God, the lifting of our spirits out of the pit of despair, the steadying of our feet on solid ground, the new song God has for us to sing. And in time, many will see what He has done and be amazed. They will put their trust in the Lord.
And I do realize it’s not always easy to find the precious when we are shadowed by the vileness of our difficult situation. Finding the precious begins by reaching for God, even when He seems distant or silent or uncaring. The precious comes closer as we stay with God, openly, honestly, dependently, trusting when we don’t understand. And the precious magnifies in the over and over and over of our dependence and trust, intentionally looking for what could God possibly have for me? What could God possibly want to do in me andthrough me? Many times I have asked God to free me from the cocoon that blinds me from finding the precious, and my God has always, always been faithful.
(Related Bible reading: Jeremiah 15:18, 19; Psalm 30:11,12; Psalm 40:1-3)